Your ambitions to improve your life do not need to be confined by your personality
Brian Little, one of the world's leading experts on personality psychology, is renowned as a public speaker. If you watch his recent TED talk on personality, as millions of others have, you will see an engaging and witty orator holding his audience's attention with aplomb. You'd probably conclude that Little is an extravert: he's not only good at what he's doing, but he seems to be revelling in the opportunity. In fact, Little is a self-proclaimed introvert. After his talk you would quite likely find him seeking a few minutes of quiet refuge behind the locked door of a toilet cubicle. This is one of the "restorative niches"... More here.